Ready? I don't lean one way or the other! Let me explain. For the most part, both sides of these kinds of arguments have some sort of Biblical scripture to back up their ideas! For me, unless the Bible says it in plain English, either idea can be true. I know a lot of people are probably shaking their head at me right now- haha. That's just my thinking.
This isn't to say that I think opinions are a bad thing. But I also think that a lot can be gained from listening. James 1:19 says,
"Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;"
It's fine to have opinions! Just make sure that you don't shut out the ideas of others in the same faith- if they have some biblical truth to their point, take the time to listen.